Jesus answered, “The most important is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. And you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’ The second is this: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:29–31 (ESV)
Every follower of Jesus knows these two commandments. They are the foundation of the whole life in Jesus. But what happens when the second commandment gets in the way of the first?
What I mean is what do you do when loving your neighbor would mean not loving God?
In this world we are told to tell someone their sins will keep them out of the kingdom of God is unloving and uncaring. Especially when they love their sin or even identify themselves with their sin. We are branded as hateful and bigots. Therefore, they say we should accept them for who they are, what they do, and that only God can judge them.
But our love for God must come first. Being the “greatest” commandment supersedes all other commands. We must love God first before we can begin to love our neighbors.
In loving God we come to find we are called to warn our neighbors of the coming judgment fo God. He will judge the living and the dead by Jesus Christ who was sinless. Those that continue to practice sin with unrepentance will not be part of the kingdom of God. They will find themselves outside the city walls separated from God and his protection.
Really the most loving thing we can do is warn people of their sin and its consequences. The most hateful thing we can do to our neighbors is not warning them of sin and judgment. To keep quiet is hateful, bigoted, and selfish.
We cannot truly begin to love our neighbors until we have come to love God and his Word.